Summer is the best time for dates. It is quite easy to find the girl you like and ask her to date with you. However, remember that if you are not prepared for the meeting you are bound to fail.
We have already given you a lot of tips on how to behave during the first date with a girl, so this article is devoted to the process of preparation for the date. We hope that our dating checklist will help you to be on top. So, let us have a look at the main points:
- Choose the time and place of the first date. You must make sure you know where you will take the girl and at what time. You must also think of plan B in case something goes wrong (for example your favorite cafe is closed when you come). If you do that, you will feel comfortable. Remember, that you must also come at least 15 minutes earlier before the arranged time, since it will not be good if you are late for your first date with a girl. This will not add you any points in her eyes.
- Take care of your appearance. We, girls, like to see clean and well-dressed men. Appearance makes a very big impression on us. So, if we see a goblin dressed in a robe and dirty shoes, believe me, the date will not even start. That is why, you must spend some time on preparing your outfit. Buy yourself good perfume, clean your shoes (it is also a good idea to have a brush or cream for shoes with you to keep them clean during the date). The main thing is to correspond to the girl’s appearance.
- Make up the algorythm of your first date. Think over every stage: First I am meeting Ann in the Central Park. Then we go to the Central Square, and after that we will have some tea in the «World of tea» cafe. The minimum result I want to get is a kiss at the end of the date. The maximum I want is sex. Remember that the girl must feel your self-confidence. So, if you don’t know exactly where to go, because you have not thought over the route of your date, you will be tense and the girl will feel the same instead of being relaxed and having a good time with you.
- Have all the needed resources for the date like time, money, apartment (in case you get your maximum), your friend’s car, etc. What if you two get so excited that you will want to go to your place? Before going on a date clear up the mess, so that your new girl would not faint at the sight of dirty socks all around your flat. You must also have money for the taxi if you do not have a car, or for paying the bill in a cafe.
- Speak the language of her interests. Try to find out what the girl does in her free time before your first date. What are her hobbies? Does she do any sport? If you want to impress girl, read something about her favorite activities and she will see not only a man, but also an interesting interlocutor. (You can ask her friends to help you learn more.)
Finally, please remember that the main aim of the first date is to get to know each other better and understand if you like each other’s company. So, to get the most of it try to be yourself, do not be nervous, relax and enjoy the evening with this unusual girl, who has managed to catch your attention.