Part 1. A “three dates” model

How to seduce a woman? Have you ever asked yourself this question? If you have, the article you are about to read will not only give you the answer to this question, but will also tell you how to seduce a woman  in three dates only.

Many books say that there are several stages of seduction which you go through. What you must remember is that you can go through each stage completely, thoroughly, in the correct order, or you can change the order of the stages or skip some of them. Here they are:

  1. Find and learn her name.
  2. Get to know her.
  3. Attract her.
  4. Get closer.
  5. Have sex.

In case you have missed out on any of the stages, you will not have a chance to build relationship. You will have to start with going through the stages you have missed. For example, if you have started your relationship with sex, you have missed the stage of getting to know each other as people. You must realize that relationship between you is not only the relationship between a man and a woman, but also between a person and a person. Despite the fact that you already have sex and your relationship has already started.

If you have not gone through the stage of attraction, i.e. she has liked you as a person not as a man, you are likely to face difficulties in your relationship since you will lack mutual «gravity».

So, what is the usual number of dates needed to seduce a woman? Clever books say that the most frequent variant of the seduction is a «three dates» model. It is an ideal instrument for creating long and beautiful relationship. This is classical and the easiest way, which does not need you to apply special methodic.

The «three dates» model is absolutely special because it is socially adequate. What do I mean by this? I mean that millions of women around the world are seduced by men following this model and nobody tells them they are acting in a strange way. Moreover, in our culture it is a standard way the actions take place and nothing else is expected.

Now, let us come to what you will need to understand to use the «three dates» model successfully. It is necessary to begin with very important notions:

First: a date is not a meeting. It is a process. Every date with a girl is a special stage; and it does not matter how many times you need to see each other before going to the next stage. Let me explain: one date (e.g. first) can last for your several factual meetings.  

Second: during one meeting you can go through as many stages as you want to. In fact, you can meet a girl in the morning and have fantastic sex with her in the evening of the same day, but still you will go through several stages of your relationship, which are called “dates”.

Changing the place within the bounds of one meeting is the most important criterion which characterizes the change of stages. For example, if you had your first date in a quiet place, got to know each other as a person and then moved to a night club, you can consider it the second date.  

As you can see, it is not so difficult, however if you do want to seduce a woman you must look at the detailed description of each of the three dates. You will find it in the next three parts of the article, each of which is devoted to a separate date.