A kiss is quite an intimate thing in every person’s life. Kissing helps to express emotions and even to understand how the relationships will develop.
Psychologists believe that kisses are very healthy. While kissing our organism produces endorphins – happiness hormones, the immunity grows, the number of breath ins and outs rises causing a more active arterial flow to the lungs. 38 muscles on your face work, which is a good substitution of gymnastics and face massage helping to unwrinkle your face. While kissing your metabolism activates and you burn calories. Just a 20-second morning kiss will make your body produce adrenalin and create positive mood for the whole day.
A kiss appeared long time ago. It is not known who and when made the first kiss, however nowadays it is a part of different traditions and cultures all around the world.
The first kiss appeared on the screen in 1896 in T. Edison’s ad.
A kiss has its own International day, which is celebrated in July. It first appeared in Great Britain and is now observed in many cities around the world. The festive events include amusing competitions like “The most unusual kiss”, “The most sensitive kiss”, “The longest kiss”, etc.
So what do we know about this sensitive and intimate process? It develops that kissing has its own language, which can tell you about a person’s intentions. Psychologists even say that after the first kiss you can understand how your relationship will develop. Let us look at the meaning of a kiss together. To do that we need to take the following into an account: the emotional disposition, the circumstances and even the exact location of the lips.
Having looked through our quick kiss guide you will hopefully learn the language of kisses and use it correctly.
A kiss on the hand. Nowadays it is a bit old-fashioned which makes this kiss even more romantic. It used to be a formal gesture to greet a woman. However now it can be a sign of attention, courtesy or even affection, which is more than just love.
Kissing a wrist is sexual and revealing. Moreover, psychologists also think it can be a sign of the intention to bring the partner into subjection.
A kiss on the forehead is a patronal kiss, like maternal or paternal, expressing care. Such a kiss can be typical if one of the partners (usually a man) is much older than the other.
A kiss on the nose expresses tenderness and liking. Such a kiss is given to a person you like or to your pet. It shows that you trust your partner.
A kiss on the cheek is nowadays a routine way to say “hi” to your friend, relative or other people you know well. In such a case, the kiss has no deep meaning. Still, if a person in love gives such a kiss to his partner, it could mean the desire to become closer, the genesis of the relationship, when it is difficult to make the first big step towards it.
A kiss on the corner of the mouth. It signifies a try to proceed in relationship, which can help you know if a partner will let you more.
A kiss on the lips shows both passion and desire. A quick kiss on the lips can be a way of saying “I like you”, “We have had a good time together”. Such a kiss is typical of people who do not like saying a lot about their feelings.
Generally, a kiss on the lips is very intimate and can be shy, tender, tremulous, passionate and even demanding. It depends on the temperament and intentions of the partner. Most often, it means that the partner wants close relationship, ready for that and there is no escape. A kiss on the lips can be of different level of passion. A too aggressive kiss means the lack of self-confidence and a wish to assert oneself. Biting the lips while kissing may signal that the partner is jealous and will not give in.
A well-known “French kiss” is the sign of maximum passion and physical attraction. It also matters whether you kiss with your eyes open or closed. In the first case (eyes open), a partner is not confident and tries to watch and check the reaction. In the second case (eyes closed) partners fully give in to the process and by closing their eyes they reinforce the senses and sensitivity.
A kiss on the neck means the desire to seduce. It is likely to be made by an experienced partner, who wants to excite a woman, knowing that neck is one of the erogenous zones. A kiss on the ear is an attempt to involve the partner into a love play and is seen as a foreplay.
A sudden, “illegal” kiss is the most romantic one. Such kisses can be a sign of strong passion leading to the loss of self-control and are usually long remembered. While a cold soulless kiss means that your partner does not feel passion to you anymore or is just lying.