Are You In Love — Or Just Infatuated?

What is infatuation? Is it the sister of true love or endearment? Cynics often swear affection doesn’t exist, while hopeless romantics think everyone should find their soulmates. Is it infatuation only or true love? Trying to figure out what you’re going through? You can always find a reason to believe that this is exactly the person for you. You do not need to have a good reason. Nevertheless, in the haze of passion, it is just what you have been searching for all these years.

It seems passionate and addictive but is ultimately insecure. When acceptance and admiration flow in our direction, we feel safe, happy, and completely alive. A solid relationship grows from the healing of our childhood wounds through ups and downs of our life while you share sorrow and joy with your significant other.

Does infatuation turn into love? This can happen. However, you have to give your feelings the room to do so. Devotion and loyalty takes time to build, and with commitment and nurturance from you and your partner, it grows and becomes stronger. Despite attraction also still persisting, when there is affection in the relationship, the passion tends to develop into intimacy.

In particular, if a lady is infatuated with you, she’ll become selfish and obsessed with you. She wants you to leave everything and be with her 24/7.

Stalking? Yes, that’s what you do if you’re attracted to someone. You go on Instagram and then you like all the pictures and you save some of them.

You literally check out everything. Whether she is talking, you will continuously look at her face, hair, lips, and blouse.

If it’s a serious relationship, everyone knows how to keep things real and in-between each other. But if you’re obsessed, you talk about the woman seven days a week. You will catch your close friends and then tell them about your so-called crush, sometimes you talk alone.

You rush to get things done. You are ready to come and propose even though you have known the woman for a month. If you are into a girl, you don’t rush things to happen.

If you don’t want to get your heart broken or waste your time on something that’s not real, you have to pay particular attention to the clear-cut signs above. If we first consider someone attractive, different thoughts come to our minds. However, as you spend some time with your girlfriend, you can understand whether you are only fantasizing or you feel real tenderness towards the lady.