Correspondence and long-distance communication with Ukrainian ladies
Correspondence and long-distance communication seems a challenging task. Due to modern digital technologies, one of our clients, let’s call him David from California, is in touch with his girlfriend, Oksana who lives in Kharkiv and is job hunting online in the USA. Despite being separated, they play online games together when David has a break at work, they call each other in the car, and they watch Netflix together at the end of the day using an app that lets them share a screen. “It’s almost like being in the same room together,” he says of their tandem streaming. Besides, they communicate with each other through different messengers. I’ve been inspired by their example and decided to offer you some tips on how to text a girl in long-distance relationships, how to write a great message or text, how exactly in Ukraine women prefer to chat.
Tip 1. Busy means busy
If a woman lets you know on Skype or Telegram that she’s too busy at the moment, it means she’s busy. She may sit at her laptop all day long, writing tons of formal emails and having pretty exhausting meetings, or visit her grandma, be on a crowded subway with a stranger trying to read what she’s texting. She might be carrying heavy bags from the supermarket, picking her kid up from school, working out in a gym or drinking coffee with her friend. You never know what can happen to her. You’d better ask “when can we skype or text?”
Tip 2. Dialogue sounds much better than monologue
Some people are quite talkative and get themselves into a position to write twenty detailed sentences about themselves without any questions to their companion. They discuss everything — awful weather and their emotions, their lunch and the old family recipe they’d like to try on Christmas, Halloween party next week and strike at the nearest factory, pros and cons of COVID-19 vaccination, ignoring everything their partner adds. But I believe you’re not that kind of person.
Tip 3. Don’t be mad
You send her a message (an exact time hasn’t been agreed), and she doesn’t respond immediately… Don’t send her 10 messages trying to figure out what has happened. Don’t panic. It is not a good idea. She might suggest you’ve lost your mind.
Tip 4. Be careful with names
One of our clients struggles to remember the names of the women he communicates with. He might call one of them by his former wife’s name. It barely makes the lady excited.
Tip 5. Show appreciation
It’s important to feel appreciated by a companion. It makes girls feel valued and drives them to do their best. It also helps with wellbeing and mental health, so it really can make a difference. Grateful couples are more satisfied and feel closer to each other.
Tip 6. Remember the facts
She has already told you about her brother and nieces. However, you’re going to ask her, whether she has siblings… again. It seems weird. She may suppose you don’t care.
Tip 7. Ping pong
Try to imagine you’re playing ping pong. You send a message. You’re looking forward to hearing from her. You ask a question. She answers and texts you back. The lady writes you a long email and sends you pictures, you reply to her with a long letter. You’re both on the same side here so let you start acting like it.
Dating a Ukrainian lady, don’t forget about compliments and romantic gestures. A simple comment “you look gorgeous in this dress in the photo” is better than a detailed story about your terrible suffering because your favorite football team has lost all of its games.
August 21, 2016 at 1:39 pm, Robert Wheeler said:
I am dating a Ukrainian lady at the moment and I have to say that I completely agree with all of your points here Svetlana. Following these basic rules will get you much further in a relationship with any lady no matter her origins. I also believe that a true gentleman will have no problems following these simple rules of dating as if he is a true gentleman, than these things are done by him naturally!
August 21, 2016 at 6:28 pm, Andrew Sachar said:
Excellent Blog Svetlana!
Rule number 1. “Don’t act crazy.” This is great advice. Unfortunately, craziness can take over even the most professional of minds. I was recently diagnosed as being crazy and I had to change my thinking completely. I feel good now. I think that I am going to be OK 🙂
Andrew
August 22, 2016 at 3:24 pm, manager1 said:
Dear Gentlemen!
Thank you for your feedback! We truly appreciate it. What other topic would you be interested in?
with love,
Svetlana
August 24, 2016 at 1:12 pm, Andrew Sachar said:
Svetlana,
I just ordered your book, Secrets to Drama Free Love, on Amazon.com. This book received very positive reviews from customers. I am looking forward to reading it very much! Perhaps after reading it, I may have some requests/suggestions for future blog topics then.
Have a wonderful day!
Andrew
August 31, 2016 at 10:31 pm, Andrew Sachar said:
Gentlemen,
I have finished reading Secrets to Drama-Free Love. It is a collaboration from several authors that share their knowledge and expertise in a variety of topics. After putting this book down you may find yourself reflecting deeply to these teachings as I did. This book is creative as well as clever. The wide scope is sure to make a connection with most readers, as there are several different philosophies shared. All with positive tones.
One particular author made a connection with me. This author asks, “What do single gentlemen want?” Before you attempt to explain what you want, keep in mind this author believes, “Pretty often what the client claims he wants and what he really wants is so different.” This author classified male clients into 6 categories, describing their individual profiles and their wants. Understanding who you are and what you really want is the key to a successful search for your beloved. If you think that you can classify yourself from the list below and also accurately claim what you want, you may be very surprised after reading this book. As I said, after putting down this book I found myself reflecting deeply for a while. If you are considering making a trip to Ukraine, buy this book. It will either help you with success or prevent you from failure.
1. “Mr. Perfect”
2. “Wanted: Family”
3. “Sugar Daddies”
4. “Divorced Prince Charming”
5. “Active Retirement”
6. “Internet Dreamers”
Maybe I’m not crazy after all.
Andrew