Having addressed a matchmaking agency in hope to find a Ukrainian wife and have a happy marriage with her, you might have thought about one important issue: how to communicate with a woman of another nationality. However, if you look around, you will surely notice a lot of couples of different nationalities, ethnic groups and cultures, which proves that love has no nationality, and the language of love is the one, that everyone understands.
Still, many people think, that a happy marriage is not possible because of the language barrier, since it can become the reason of misunderstanding between people and they will not be able to convey their emotions, feelings, tell about their interests, and, of course, say “I love you”, so that your woman could understand you.
However, there is an expression “friendship is keeping silence together”, which can be said about love and marriage too. When chemistry works between two people, when love is born, they do not need any words. When you and your woman are in love with each other, your gestures and gazes speak louder than words. Of course, if you want to have a happy marriage, you will have to find the way to communicate with words, because it is not possible to make gestures or mime what you want only. But, being unable to speak Ukrainian, cannot prevent you from loving your woman and being loved back.
I do agree that marrying a Ukrainian woman can be frightening because of a language barrier, but if you read this article till the end, you will see that you can overcome any obstacles connected with it.
- The first and the most widespread fear among men and women, who want to have happy marriage with a foreigner, is that they will not understand each other at home, in household activities. However, having many clients, who are married to Ukrainian women and are happy, I have evidence that it is very easy to learn a language doing the things about the house together. The most important thing is to set a goal to communicate in the language, which is suitable for you both, and not to make any barriers inside your head.
- The second fear is that you will not be able to communicate with HER relatives and friends. But here, my friend, you have to remember, that if you have decided to build relationship with a Ukrainian woman, she is worth finding a common language with people surrounding her. The main thing you must show them is that you are a loving and caring man, which will bribe her friends and the language barrier will not be so noticeable.
- The third fear is the one that Ukrainian women have, because in most cases, it is they, who have to leave their country and go abroad. Even facing a happy marriage with a foreign man they love (you), they are afraid to stay without a job because they do not know the language of the country they are moving to. To relieve your future Ukrainian wife, you can find language courses for her, or even try to find some “internationally-married” couples, who will share their experience on how to adapt and where to find a job for a woman, who has just immigrated. (I am sure that your matchmaker can be of some help in that).
But the most important thing that both you and your future Ukrainian wife must remember is that if you want to have a happy marriage, you must decide whether you and your desire to develop and work for your happiness, or your fears rule your life.