I am sexy and I know it
A month ago, a few quite challenging clients claimed that they were really hot (“I know I’m sexy,” “All women want me,” “I could get work as a model,” “Young girls are dreaming about dating older men; I’m the best.”) Those gentlemen looked good in their forties or early fifties, they were never married and had no children. To tell the truth, none of them had a well-muscled body, making young Ukrainian girls or Lolitas all over the world go out of mind and want to bridge the age gap in a romantic relationship. They were proud of their pretty bellies; one of them decided to wear his grey hair up to look like Donald Trump.
Needless to say, answering the question, what seems more important — personality or looks, they are confident that inner beauty which refers to the mindset and character of a person is much more significant when it comes to men, however, women should look gorgeous and be young. Besides, they’re convinced much attention is also needed to be paid to ladies’ appearance. Nevertheless, a vast majority of women would find attractive their personal traits (they are intelligent, well-educated, established and kind), but, in our humble opinion, their low self-esteem plays a really bad joke with them. They appear super confident, but obviously they are not. Instead of demonstrating their strengths, they try to show the world the mask of a super sexy guy, which doesn’t suit them.
On the other hand, we have a client in his fifties with realistic expectations. He has a successful career and a great sense of humor, he travels a lot, he feels comfortable in his own skin. He is a Doctor of Law. He has been working at one of the largest companies in New York for ten years. He’s still unmarried and doesn’t have any kids, though he appreciates traditional family values and dreams about bringing up children together with his significant other. To be honest, the slogan of a great number of women is “All I want is a good guy to live happily ever after.” And this gentleman looks as if he has just come out of a huge billboard “Suitable Husband.” This man, let’s call him Andy, has a great chance to get acquainted with a charming lady 8—12 years younger, interested in his inner world.
Now let’s assume we decide to introduce Andy to a pretty brunette in her early twenties who rents the cheapest apartment in the suburbs together with her friends and studies at the university. She may believe all the men on the planet are ready to fall in love with her only because she’s young and her body looks amazing. Certainly, Andy is able to buy her affection with gifts and surprises. But he should think about if this is really worth it. Would their relationship be long-lasting or solid? No, hardly!
It goes without saying, girls prefer to communicate with confident men, but it seems more essential to be honest with yourself. Don’t forget that you should treat people the way you want to be treated. Instead of “being sexy and knowing it” make her fall in love with you with your determined effort and honesty.
September 06, 2016 at 6:01 pm, Andrew Sachar said:
Oh, how I wish I could live a normal life, free from this curse. When I was a young man the attention I received from young beautiful girls was wonderful. A true delight! However, as I have grown older, and wiser, having incredibly good looks causes a great deal of problems for my professional life. Even more problems for my social life. Some days I ask God, “Why did you make me in your likeness…so perfect?” One day when God responded back, “Andrew, my child, it was not by my hands,” I realized that this was the devil’s work.
I can no longer visit Tokyo due to the endless requests to cuddle. Hong Kong is definitely out of the question because these women feel as though they can buy me as a husband. The nerve of these women, thinking that expensive gifts and a life of luxury can “purchase” my love. American women are even worse. In their competitive world, the companionship of an attractive male is key to their ranking among the other women on their “social scale.” It can be quiet embarrassing at times, being identified as a “Boy Toy” among these women. Not to mention extremely difficult to carry a conversation with. I keep reminding them, “My eyes are up here!” Yes, these women are terrible, but the absolute worst women in the world are the European women. It is not so much a problem as to where to start in explaining why, but rather where to end. It is best for me to stay out of Europe as well.
Perhaps I may have better luck in the Kievan Rus’ culture; someone who will see me for my personality, charm, and intellect? As an academic scholar, I seek the intellect above that of a professional sports cheerleader, with their long legs, firm breasts, and energy that lasts all throughout the night. Only time will tell. And that time will be for the entire month of April, 2017. After some research, I have a very good feeling about this upcoming Spring. All I can say is WOW! Ukrainian women are so well mannered, elegant, charming, and extremely educated. Unlike American women that send countless Facebook requests for additional pictures of me. No, it is not appropriate for me to show “Eye Candy” photos to everyone. And certainly not any photos of my “Candy Cane.” But I cannot blame them, as my devilish good looks are my own curse and I must deal with it alone. It was best that I removed all my social media content. No Facebook, no Linkedin, no Twitter, no Skype, no way! Is it not possible for a woman to love with her mind and not her eyes?
“Love looks not with the eyes but with the mind. And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.” – William Shakespeare