Virginity lost – who is the first
Hello everyone. Although it is October and the weather is not so warm outside, I hope my article will make you hot. The question under discussion is the following: virginity loss in different countries. One may think there is nothing to discuss because it is the same everywhere. However, there are some interesting facts, which make a usual first sex different depending on the country where the person lives. I have done some research and on the basis of stories of my friends from another countries I will tell you how girls have sex for the first time. What about your experience?
In the USA the most common case when a girl loses virginity at the backseat of her boyfriend’s car at the age of 16. It is the usual age, probably because the driving license is obtained at this age.
The place and circumstances are not important for a young person in Germany. Appropriate time is what really matters. According to the statistics every second German woman loses her virginity in October, during Oktoberfest.
The Czech Republic.
The Czech teenagers prefer warm and bright summer to cold rainy October and about 45% usually lose virginity during the summer holidays in summer camps.
The scenario in the countries of Latin America depends on the social status of a teenager. A wealthy family pays more attention to the morality of its daughters. So “rich girls” can have intimacy only when they are going to get married.
If a family is not rich, their attitude to it is quite simple. The girls from such families usually lose their virginity either at their boyfriend’s home or at their own. The usual places are parks and even staircases of blocks of flats. My friend Carina is from Latin America and she is saying that a tendency nowadays is the following: girls start to have sex at early age.
According to the statistics, French teens start having sex later than the rest of their European peers. In most cases, it happens at someone’s home (about 40%) or in the cinema (20%).
It is difficult to make any assumptions why it happens this way with the UK’s teenagers, but most of them lose their virginity during the holidays outside the UK, while travelling, on hiking trips, different tours or summer camps. My close friend Nancy from the Uk is only 20, but her experience in having sex for the first time was in her early 15. Because most teenagers are independent, live separately from their parents, so they have more freedom.
Although the Italian climate is quite hot, Italian girls are rather shy and serious. In a survey, about 65% had their virgin sex when they were sure that their boyfriend’s feelings were sincere and he had serious intentions.
India is the country where attitude to having intimacy before marriage is quite stern. So young men and women have to wait until their official marriage. So, it happens on the wedding night in their marital bed, which is usually in the bride’s or groom’s parents’ house.
Ukrainians usually have their first intimacy at home when their parents are away or at their friend`s apartment, usually they lose their virginity in university period of life.
It seems that every new generation starts sexual life earlier than the previous one; however, British scientists have proved such a tendency to be a myth. And teenagers start doing this at the age of 15-19, just like their parents and grandparents.
Even though statistics show the average number, there are some exceptions. Let me share some tips on how to having sex for the first time with a new partner.
- Treat her with respect. It is a very sensitive and intimate moment. Show your full understanding and being ready to take responsibility for such action.
- Secure emotionally, show your feelings, so that she can trust you.
- Spend a lot of time for foreplay. She needs a big portion of kisses, touching and all sorts of warming up. Try to find erogenous zones, you will understand it by moaning and body reaction.
- Plan it ahead. Sex for the first time with a new partner should be preplanned, discussed and should be in comfortable conditions.
- Be romantic. Make it the best experience. You may share a bottle of delicious wine, prepare a bedroom in romantic style, setting candles and some nice background relaxing music.
- Stay confident. She can trust you if she sees confident actions. Help to relax and enjoy the process.