What is it like to date an extremely attractive woman?
It is known that men love with their eyes. Therefore, very often they choose their girlfriend looking at her appearance first. Still, nowadays there are a lot of gorgeous women, who are single. Why is it so? Maybe, it is because dating a very beautiful woman is not an easy task?
SO, WHAT IS IT LIKE TO GO OUT WITH A BEAUTY QUEEN?
Going out with an extremely beautiful woman you definitely must fight for her attention and worry about other men. Surely, trusting your girlfriend is out of the question, but what about people you do not know?
Seeing a really pretty woman becoming more jealous is possible. Of course, you could be one of those, who almost never feel jealousy, however even such people have the feeling of ownership.
Being with very attractive women their partners come second. People might not notice them in their girlfriend’s presence. Even being the heart-and-soul of the company, does not save from receding into the background. Moreover, if you are a usual guy, other people could start wondering how such a pretty thing has become your girlfriend.
Dating a hot girl, there is a chance of finding out she is seeing you only for your money. Of course, people do not look for logical reasons why she is with you; accepting the fact that she wants your money is easier. Even if you are not rich, you would be told she is with you until you can afford to buy expensive presents.
Dating hot women, guys are easily manipulated. Of course, all ladies are good enough at manipulating their boyfriends, but if a really beautiful one asks something, there isn’t any chance of saying “no”. Moreover, you will be happy to drop everything to do what she wants.
Having a relationship with a charmer, one might become an unreliable person. Constant jealousy and the lack of trust make you unsafe for the girl; while she needs a strong superman beside.
So, is there any way out? How to date a woman of extraordinary loveliness? Or isn’t it even worth trying? My dear friend, I am asking you not to fear and offer some advice, which could help in case you are brave enough to win a beauty queen’s heart:
Do not put the knockout on a pedestal. She is used to men being blinded with her glamour and doing whatever she asks, so if you behave yourself as if you do not care about appearance, she will be fascinated.
Notice the hot babe’s friends. Usually, not so pretty women, who surround your girlfriend stay unnoticed by men; however, if you pay more attention to a cutie’s friend, she may become jealous. If she saw you show less interest in her, she would show more interest in you.
Avoid showering the cutie with compliments. Instead, tease the lady and joke on her drawbacks. It goes without saying you must know limits and do not turn your jokes into something offensive. So, teasing a pretty babe, you definitely stand out of the crowd of men singing odes to her attractiveness and she can’t help falling for you.
Look inside the lady’s inner world. Very often men see such girls as sexual objects and do not care much about their interests and hobbies. Differ from the rest: ask about free time and the girl’s likes, and she will be grateful that you do not look at the face only.
Play unavailable. Leave out trying to get her into bed immediately, as most men would do this. Remember, waiting is sometimes better than persuading for ages.
Finally, being a respectable, powerful, and rich gentleman to understand how to date a pretty girl is not necessary. Just stay calm, play your game and you will find the most gorgeous ladies at your feet.
PS. Having reread my writing, I really feel the need of sharing my personal opinion on the topic. I do believe that having an incredibly attractive lady as a girlfriend is quite an achievement and one has to be proud feeling envious eyes at him. Still, is all that glitters gold? And what is real beauty? I have come across a very interesting Persian tale on the topic and cannot help telling it to you!
Once a poet embarked on a journey around the world to find beauty and understand what it is. He left as a young boy, spent his whole life in search, but only before his death, he seemed to know what he had been going after for many years. Being old, gray-haired, and weak, he died of hunger and need and ascended to heaven. The daughter of Nature met him there in the guise of a young maiden, gently ran her hands through the hair, patiently listened to the old poet.
– With my life and death, I conjure, – the old man begged, – tell me, what is beauty? After all, people define and know it in different ways, they glorify and love it in different ways!
And the maiden answered:
– Beauty is what you have an attraction for in your soul; what you see and would like to give, not take; what bodies consider a test, and souls a blessing, is a union between sadness and joy. Beauty is what you see, although it is hidden from your eyes, what you recognize, although it is unknown, what you hear, although it is dumb.
The poet died alone, but his soul repeated:
– Beauty is what you see and would like to give, not take.
So… maybe dating an extremely beautiful lady is not about appearance and behavior, but about your sincere wish to find your true love and make her happy?
Valeria Matskevich With Love.