Psychological Approach

Psychological screening – find your perfect match

Singles often complain that modern dating is complicated. On the one hand, online dating gives you an illusion of endless choice. On the other hand, it feels like you keep scrolling, swiping, texting, meeting strangers, and getting high hopes that will be crashed by another ghosting or friend zoning. And after investing lots of time and effort, you are still single and disappointed.

You will get the same results if you keep applying the same strategy. Online dating can really work if you know how to do it right. But perhaps you do not have the time and skills – months of online texting and meeting strangers before you find the one. Or maybe you just don’t know how to choose the right person and keep falling for someone who cannot be a good dating partner. Professional psychological screening, high-quality matchmaking service, and dating coaching can be a total game-changer for you. We can find the problem’s roots, answer why you can’t meet the right person, and build a happy, lasting, serious relationship. We can help you improve your flirting skills, understand the structure of a good date, learn how to read her body language, give her clever compliments, and create romantic tension.

Why is dating hard for so many people?

Opening up to a new person and building a trusting relationship is difficult. We all have specific life experiences – both positive and negative. Combine them with the modern speed of life, changes in society, and differences in cultures and traditions, and you will understand why so many singles cannot build quality communication, especially romantic communication filled with flirting and based on mutual interest and similarity in long-term goals.

Every relationship we’ve ever built has left an imprint on us. Your experiences create expectations, stereotypes, and fears and set you on a path with your behavior. However, not everyone is ready to critically analyze how their negative experiences influenced them.

If you want to create a new relationship with someone you genuinely care about, then you have to let your previous relationships go, including understanding your mistakes and your hurts to avoid them in the future.

Elevating matchmaking standards

Our matchmaking agency was founded in 2008 in Kharkiv, Ukraine. Since then, we have worked non-stop with singles: we introduced them, collected quality feedback, shared dating tips and advice, and supported them as they built new relationships. We always work in the interests of our clients and, every year, get new professional experience, which we implement into our matchmaking process. In 2015, we added one more cupid to our team – a professional psychologist with practical experience working with families.

Our team psychologist helps you find the roots of your dating issues so we can support your dating strategy with customized advice and address your past experiences and future goals. Our approach to psychological screening and support varies from client to client, so it’s individualized and offers you what you need to solve your problem. Our psychologist’s work has undoubtedly helped many couples solve “unsolvable problems” and “difficult situations” to save their relationships. As a result, our couples are happily married and raising children.

Watch this video to understand if you really need a psychologist when it comes to love:

Why working with a psychologist can get you stronger matches

How do our views of a good relationship form? Initially, our ideas formed from how our parents raised us. Our parents and their families teach us what’s good, bad, or “just fine” in a relationship. As we age, these standards change with the influence of society, neighbors, our friends’ families, books we read, movies (most often, Hollywood movies), and fairy tales.

Is there anyone who didn’t hear fairy tales in their childhood?

With all these created “standards,” it’s normal for people to look for a partner who will match all the features and characters in these idealized standards. But life is neither a beautiful novel nor a romantic movie. In real life, we meet people with their expectations and vision of the perfect relationship (often unrealistic).

When two people meet, and the reality of the relationship doesn’t match the fantasy, conflict begins.

Everyone has their understanding of personal space, family budget, romance, and different intimacy and sex desires. When two people are in love, and their views don’t align, trouble is on the horizon if they don’t work on what’s underneath and get to the heart of what makes them compatible.

If someone loves you, even if it’s not 100% the way you want it, it doesn’t mean they don’t really love you. The truth is that it’s crucial to think about not only your desires but also your partner’s interests. Working with a good psychologist will help you learn to speak clearly about your needs so you can really hear your partner. Even arguments can be productive, and this is one crucial value Diolli brings to every couple we match together.

The benefits of working with a psychologist when entering the dating market

Psychological screening gives you the benefit of meeting women who were hand-picked for you based not only on your personal preferences but also your lifestyle, family values, and life goals. And you will be introduced to women who are actually looking for your type!

After every introduction, you and your date will get the necessary tips and advice that will help you bring this acquaintance to the next level.

You will have a team of experienced professionals who can help you prevent inevitable dating and relationship mistakes and navigate building the relationship you always wanted.

That means when you have a misunderstanding with your partner, or an argument or cultural difference causes you a challenge, you will have the opportunity to get professional help from your team of dating specialists, including an experienced psychologist. And because you are matched right from the start, your chances of navigating those issues are profoundly higher. The work conveys a unified concept through different media.

Work With Diolli To Find Your Match

We are a professional boutique matchmaking agency, and by hiring us, you should expect high professionalism and experience.

• We genuinely believe that our clients have the right to choose among the best.
• Once you contact us, you will have an initial brief consultation with our leading matchmaker and founder – Svitlana Mukha
• You will get the opportunity to have a personal consultation about your dating experience, expectations, and preferences regarding the kind of women you would like to meet.
• You will learn how to continue working on your dating strategy and if Diolli is the right company to help you with this vital part of your life.

In this video, you can get some information on what kind of mistakes you could make before and why you are still single:

Meet Our Leading Psychologist: YULIIA SYROTENKO, MA

Yuliia Syrotenko, MA, is a certified psychologist with over a decade of practical experience in the dating business. Yuliia hosted speed-dating events before joining the Diolli.com matchmaking service. Yuliia leads our psychological screening and offers clients ongoing support throughout the matchmaking process. She provides private consultations in relationships and communication to solve personal problems. Yuliia uses an integrative approach with clients and regularly works on her self-development to raise the standard of professional matchmaking and the support Diolli offers clients.

Yuliia has a university degree in “Computerized Control Systems and Automatics.” Her major was programming. But after using her computer engineering degree, she realized that people interest and excite her more than machines. Yuliia then earned her Master’s in “Practical Psychology.” In 2015, she founded local speed-dating events in Kharkiv, Ukraine, and in 2025, she joined the Diolli.com matchmaking team.

What Happens During A Psychological Screening?

How do we use psychological screening during the matchmaking process? Yuliia interviews every woman we consider a potential match for our clients. We pay close attention to understanding the real intentions behind what brings a woman to our agency. Her goal can be not only looking for love.

For example, some women want to forget their previous relationship by focusing on a new one or solve their problems (including financial ones) with a new man. Some ladies have no dating experience or understanding of what they want and need, and they hope to get this experience and find out if they want a relationship at all.

We won’t register these women.

We can offer them dating coaching, and only after they have completed our training we can consider introducing them to our clients. Additionally, if a woman is not open to international relationships, we don’t put her into our database for international introductions.

As you see, psychological screening is crucial for building a healthy and harmonious relationship. If you need assistance attracting the right person into your life, start by watching one of our videos about what single men should do to find real love.

If our message aligns with what you’re looking for in a matchmaking service, please complete the request form to schedule the first consultation with our professional matchmaker.

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