14 women’s secrets every man should know
What do women want in a man? You might think there is an endless list of things females want from men, but in reality it is not that long.
- Feelings are the most important thing. She loves her mood when she is around you. Males very often forget about surprises once they get into a serious relationship. Do you remember how you were trying to win a girl`s heart at the beginning of dating? Look for the ways to brighten the days not only on special occasions, but also on a regular day. My married female friend said that when she started to date her husband, he was very romantic. He could surprise very unexpectedly. Once she was having dinner at the restaurant with the best friend and he ordered a flower delivery there. He was experimenting with surprises and they were never the same. But now she receives flowers on the 8th of March and birthday. She understands that now they have some responsibilities and bills to pay, but still you should be romantic and do it without even spending money. To give him a hint, she started making pleasant things by herself and he joined as well. Communication is the key to any problem.
- Chivalrous manners. Courtship is important is not only during the first phase. Of course, a girl can move the chair, open the door, but she expects it from you. She wants to feel a little girl, who is taken care of.
- Clothes do matter. Fashion is a temporarily phenomenon, but a guy’s attention to his appearance (hair and clothes) must be permanent. It matters from the first minute. You must do your best to make HER like you. Your style shows how much you take care about yourself, how fit you look and can reveal your character too. She will notice your haircut, manicure (neat nails) and of course accessories (wrist watch, belt, wallet). Paying attention to small details really matter. You might not be a fashion guru, but it is important how you present yourself to the world.
- Do not hide your drawbacks. Nothing can have a higher chance to win a girl’s heart than a wish to become better. In fact, she prefers when “her man” admits he has drawbacks, for example bad traits of character or bad mood after work, and makes an effort to fight them. No one is perfect, learn to be vulnerable and open your heart.
- Be independent. It doesn`t mean only about the ability to pay the bills, but also make up your mind and stand on your two feet. Have your own hobbies and interests. Do not limit her freedom as well.
- It is not enough to nod your head. Of course it is very important to be able to listen, but she also wants to know if she has been heard. Just a nod of the head will not be enough. Since when she makes a pause, she wants to hear some supportive words from you. For example, if she says that she has not enough time to meet the deadline, say that such a task is really difficult to be done so quickly, but do not offer her your solution of this problem. That is not what she needs right now.
- What do women like about sex? They want to feel the connection, mutual understanding and romance. Which means time, words, touch, or, in other words, prelude. A little warm-up is needed before sex. Building arousal is important for her to gain satisfaction. Foreplay plays a key role in intimacy. The more time you spend for a foreplay, less time she will need during the act to reach climax. If she is heated enough, she can reach it within five minutes. Experiment with what get her going, one likes to be touched and kissed, another one prefers a massage of the whole body. No matter how much time you are going to spend for a foreplay, you just must not skip it.
- What do women want from men in bed? Being desired and have emotional intimacy. Ask what she wants to feel in bed. Women like discussing what is going to happen in bed. Approach the topic with tact and ask what she likes. Explore your girl`s body and experiment. Bedroom is not the only place to make love, try doing it in some unusual place. Be in charge of the situation, there is no need to be shy here. If a girl likes to be dominant, let her be the captain some time too. In order to find out more secret things about each other`s desires, practice sexting even though you live in the same city. She may reveal hidden feelings throughout texts and photos, then you can make it true in reality.
- Share your pain. If for some reason you have failed in bed, she will also feel guilty because she cannot excite you. She needs to discuss it and hear that you do not think so, what you are going to do, especially if it repeats. Of course such a talk is not very pleasant for both of you, but talking is better than keeping silence.
- Say this again and again… Women like guys, who notice their beauty and tell them that they look gorgeous, or, for example, sexy in their new clothes. She will not keep you waiting with gratitude, but you must tell a compliment before she openly hints you about it. If she looks especially attractive, has wonderful hair, she is the best, mention it.
- Do not be afraid to discuss things. An honest and sincere conversation can let you discuss a lot of questions, helping to improve your relationship and making you closer.
- Look into your partner’s eyes. You may like to sit next to each other, however a lot of girls think it is good to sit opposite their men. That is because they like to have an eye contact while talking. This helps to make your relationship deeper.
- Do not miss the right moment. How can you know if a girl wants to continue relationship? She will tell you herself. That is what women do sincerely, but they do not like talking about it too often. If you want to hear the answer to your question once again, you will have to lead your woman step by step to it again.
- Keep romance alive. Romance in relationship is vital, no matter for how long you have been together, and every man should know it. It can be an ordinary romance like a bouquet of flowers, dinner in the candlelight, reciting a poem, but most females will appreciate your attention and will show their thankfulness when the lights go out.
What are other girl`s secrets guys should know? Girls love guys who have a good sense of humour and can make her laugh. You don`t have to be a stand-up comedian, but having fun together is a good ground for building a strong bond. They also like those, who have passion in life. It is not about having your own business or owing an oil company. It is about knowing what you want and having a clear purpose. If you are happy with your life, you can make another person happy too.
Do you need to know every single detail about her? There are some female secrets, which women keep from men. There are lots of things women want men to know, but some feminine stuff like where she does her laser hair removal and makeup she can share with her best friend.
Why do women love men? Even in today`s feminist independent world females do want to have a man and build happy relationship. No matter how strong she is, she loves your masculinity and confidence. She feels safe with you, a man can play many roles: a boyfriend, husband, father, grandfather. She is happy with a man in a healthy relationship, she becomes more attractive, more sexy and inspired.
I hope this article helped you to find out what do women really want and put some light on what is right in relationship.