How to date young Ukrainian girls
I have heard many times age is just a number when it comes to love. Do you agree with it? I know some single men think the younger the better and it doesn’t bother them that they almost have no common topics to discuss and have different background. He doesn’t know the names of the cartoons she used to watch in childhood and she is not aware of the band names he used to listen to.
Having relationship with a girl, who is younger than you, is quite a controversial issue. A good marriage is the one in which a man is about five years older than a woman, it happens so, that Cupid does not care about the age and makes so that you fall in love with a lady much younger than you. Is such a union going to bring you anything good?
If we look at this issue impartially, we may see that there is a number of advantages in the relationship where a man is much older than a woman, since he gets respect, obedience, the energy of youth and new emotions from a younger woman, who, in her turn, gets experience, someone is worth respect, good material support, wider opportunities and, which is also important, sexual experience from an older partner. Still the age difference means that you have different world outlook, which can ruin any relationship. Therefore, you should follow several rules, when you date a young Ukrainian girl, who is looking for marriage.
A man must dominate in such relationship. Frankly speaking, this rule is suitable for any couples, but if you want to date a younger lady, it is a must. Why? Because any relationship develops more favorably when both a man and a woman reveal their strengths. In our case, a man is wise enough and has life experience, which makes a woman accept his point of view easily and follows his instructions. However, being “the boss”, remember that your rule works only if you respect your girl’s point of view. If you want her to do the way you like, give reasonable explanations, which convince her to change the opinion.
You must forget about jealousy, which is usually the sign of weakness. Were you 20 years old, people would understand you, but being a serious grown-up man, means that you know how to make the lady stay beside you. Otherwise the scenes of jealousy will not help you. They destroy your image of a strong and self-assured man as well as the whole attractiveness of your relationship.
You must take their interests with respect. It is a typical mistake to laugh at her hobbies. Being 20, girls are in search of themselves, so it is typical of them to change their image twice a day, go to an all-night-long party, collect some strange things like teddy bears, grow flowers at home or do sports three times a day. And this is a short list of what girls of such age do, while a grown up man, who has already found his way in life can find this silly. If you demonstrate this, you make a foolish mistake and she will not see you as a wise person who can understand her.
You must be a lover, not mentor. You are a sexual partner in the first place, not an instructor. If you decide to teach all the time on any occasion, she will see you as a bore, not as someone, who can give a good piece of advice.
There are many sexy girls in Ukraine. Your sexual role with the girl is leading altruist. Being more experienced you can both give and get pleasure. So, you must be the one, who is the leader in sex. You are the one, who sets the pace, while the woman will obey. Usually, such assigning of roles is convenient for everyone.
It is quite understandable, when you are in a relationship with a woman, you want to be a part of her life and know who she communicates with, as well as introduce to your friends. Still, when you date a young lady, you must believe that neither you are going to feel comfortable among a group of noisy and always-partying twenty-year-olds, nor your young partner is going to enjoy a quiet evening in the company of serious men discussing serious topics. Is there any way out? Yes. The best thing is to find a new company, where there are people of different ages.
There is one thing you must never do though. It is an awful mistake to try to become younger. What do I mean by this? If you try to copy the youth style in clothes or behave as if you are a young boy, you are going to look ridiculous. The only thing that can make you younger is sport and healthy food, which improves your shape. Your biological age is not written on your face, while extra kilos on your belly and being unwieldy show it well.
There are many beautiful women in Ukraine, it is a fact. That`s why international dating in Ukraine is becoming more and more popular nowadays. Foreigners from different countries are looking for brides from Ukraine, tempted by their youth and energy. Among them there are many young girls from Ukraine who are ready for marriage. Men from all around the world address marriage agencies, different websites. But not all agencies would recommend to mind the age gap. Matchmaking agencies do consider the age gap and would never introduce a gentleman in his 50s with a girl in her 20s. You may be misled by examples of famous celebrities with a big age difference, but in real life it rarely works.
I would like to share couple`s experience with an age gap, whom I personally know. Let call them Linda and Mark. She is 22 and he is 32. 10 years difference was absolutely no obstacle for them at the beginning of dating until they decided to settle down. They have a lot of common interests and values. They both wanted to have family. But when Mark was absolutely ready to have kids, Linda wanted to explore the world more. She wanted to take part in cultural exchange program, travel and learn a new language. She also was thinking about kids in the future, but maybe in 5 years time. Unfortunately they didn`t find a compromise.
Ela, who is 32 and Charles, who is 64 live happily in Dubai. It works for them, because of several reasons. He fulfills her dreams and she gives him her youth and beauty. He provides her money, car and a flat, everything she dreamt of. In return she accompanies him on all the important events. But it was clear from the beginning what type of relationship they both want to have. There are no false expectations, they both receive what they want from the deal and it satisfies them.
Ukrainian women are not only so beautiful, but also intelligent and make good wives, that`s why men from all around the world want to marry them. You should consider an age difference, it shouldn`t exceed 5 years, but if it is more then you should follow these tips:
- Be patient and tolerant.
- Communicate. It is the key to all the problems.
- Have a diverse sex life.
No matter you choose an older or a younger partner, if you made such decision, you should put efforts to make it work.