Peculiarities of interracial dating
We would like to devote our article to such topic. Being an international matchmaking agency, we think it is important to highlight this question since we are directly connected with the situation when people from all over the world want to check how a dating site for interracial relationships works. We will share with you how matchmaking is in real life. So, what are the advantages and disadvantages of dating a different race?
Why is interracial dating good?
According to psychological surveys, 40% questioned, think that such marriages are short-lasting, about 20% of respondents say that there is no difference in the quality of a marriage being monoracial or mixed, while the rest 40% are absolutely sure that an international marriage is a positive sociological phenomenon.
What you must clearly understand is the fact that it is not important whether the family consists of people of the same or different nations. What really matters is the harmony, welfare and strength obtained by tolerance, a desire to get new experience, respect, trust, true feelings and serious attitude to the family from both partners, being able to take responsibility and mutual love. So, if you are still thinking, whether it is worth looking for a foreign wife getting scared of people`s judging it is not for you. But, if you have a strong desire to become happy and are not afraid to make the necessary efforts, you are welcome to join our challenging, interesting and such a “hope-giving” world of matchmaking. Singles are becoming more open nowadays, using multicultural dating site to find love. Take advice on interracial dating before making any attempts.
When people from different nations get married, one of them has to move to his or her partner’s country, where he/she has to face new life-style, new mentality, new work, law and healthcare organisation, not to mention heaps of papers that an “international” couple has to fill in. But it can be a good challenge for a couple. Another problem which may arise because one of the partners ,might be home-sick and miss his/her motherland, family and friends who have stayed there. But with a support of your beloved one, everything seems easier in life, with possibilities of 21st century all doors are open, different apps like Facetime, whatsapp, which enables you to video call from any corner of the Earth. Luckily we do have internet everywhere and any time, so you have all tools to stay connected with your family and friends 24/7.
And when you all meet together, it will be so much fun. Inviting them to visit you and your new family outside of the country is very exciting involving new traditions and culture, trying foreign food and exploring new places.
Since online dating for interracial couples is quite widespread nowadays, there has been a number of surveys held by specialists, which has shown the following drawbacks. Here is useful information about interracial dating.
The first drawback and absolutely obvious one is the inconsistency between cultures, traditions and, of course, upbringing children. Therefore, there might some misunderstanding, it may vary from observing daily rituals and customs, cooking traditions, or some religious rituals. Despite some differences in cultures, love will make magic. Strong bonds between you will help you to overcome any difficulties. Love means compromise, respect and support. You can learn from each other and agree on upbringing children, even getting a benefit from it, a child can be bilingual and have multicultural background.
The second drawback is the disapproving, condemnation and misunderstanding of people surrounding you. And very often not only neighbours, acquaintances and business partners, or other people who do not know you well start making rumours and reproach you for being with “this” girl or “this” girl being with you, because you both have some benefit (money or other) from this marriage, but your own family, people who are supposed to give you a helping hand in any situation, disagree to support you.
Despite a few drawbacks that you can encounter, advantages prevail and we can definitely say it is exciting experience for both of you. Relationship in general is utterly challenging, but international relationship is not only challenging, but very interesting. You will immerse into a different culture, which can be a lifelong experience, will travel more, if you end up getting married and having children it might be a very exotic mix with peculiar beautiful features inherited from parents. It teaches you to be more tolerant towards different culture, religion, nation.
October 16, 2016 at 2:53 pm, Jean-Claude Gnante said:
Great blog on this very sensitive topic.
Interracial dating and marriages help bridge the gap between two ethnicity by bringing in tolerance, mutual and shared interest in discovering and learning from each other culture, acceptance and deep respect for who the other person is.
The world around you might not always be approving of such relationships but at the end of the day you have to follow your heart and protect and care for your interracial relationship or interracial marriage.
You only live once and by standing strong for one another those around you and the world as a whole will learn to be tolerant and realize gradually that Love comes from the heart and the soul and those two things have no color and no shape.It is a magical experience that bring two people together beyond the ethnicity factor.
Love is a life journey you should not hold back from because of what people might thing of you being in an interracial relationship or marriage. But instead you should embrace it fully with your whole heart and soul and put the best of you in it and share it together.
On the flip side the main important thing is to stand for one another and be strongly committed to another. You need to pull harder to make things work for the relationship and marriage to roll forward.
This is what love is all about and you can make your life as wonderful as possible.
The key thing is to remember that you are both as beautiful on the outside as you are on the inside.
It is just the satisfaction that you are both there for one another, stronger together against all odds.
Living life with the woman that you love irrespective of your different ethnicity is very satisfying because, you are not so curious about what it is to be like to be with someone else, because you are totally satisfied with the person you are with.
What matters in an interracial relationship and marriage is that you bring out the very best in one another through deep and real commitment.
You need to have a life full of variety by doing interesting things, having great hobbies, a passion for the things you love to be the best version of yourself, and want to share with that other half that you are longing for by grooming yourself for your future wife Ukrainian wife.
Even after you find your Ukrainian wife and both embark on this wonderful and rich life adventure that interracial marriage is, you still need to continue to be the best version of yourself, and drive towards that for different kind of reasons.
It is a personal transformation that you want to continue making for both of your lives as a married interracial couple.
She will be in your life and your life will be better but you still want to improve what you believe your life as a married couple, should be by pressing forward into business and health and relationships.
It will be like a benefit that continues to drive you forward into excellence and this is going to be the result of being with an amazing person.
October 16, 2016 at 9:49 pm, Jean-Claude said:
Following on from my previous comment, I would like to raise the fact that a lot of people and this is widely spread, when it comes to interracial dating or marriage use the word RACE incorrectly.
So I thought that it would be important to educate them on this topic.
And as a result the first thing we should cover here is the RACE. For example, to the question commonly asked in paperwork documents to fill in…What is your race? The answer should be…My race is human.
Or have you ever dated outside of your race? The answer to this wrongly formulated question should be…No I cannot say I have, I am not now… because we are the human race.
Technically as you see it is not possible, so the correct way of formulating this question should be…have you ever dated outside of your ethnicity? Then you can surely answer yes or no to this question because you have the physical capability to either date outside of your etc ethnicity but not outside of your race!
This is where the subtlety lies between the way the question is formulated.
There is actually one RACE of human beings-the Human Race. There aren’t different species of humans.
Color of skin does not denote species, geographical origins, even culture, none of that represents race.
We are simply one race of people all of us. And this is how we differentiate from the animal realm.
As a result, the term race applies more to canine or bovine etc.
So the correct term to use when we refer to the various type of people in the human race is ETHNICITY and not race to refer to the skin tone or complexion.
Now coming back to the interracial dating or marriage, surely one will attract stares and looks in the streets as you stand out from the crowd or from the usual norm depending if you live in an area or society where it is not a common occurrence. And this is normal, so to speak and it might come a lot from the older generation of people.
It might bother you at the beginning but the best thing is not to care so much about it.
One thing is that we you know that you are doing something that is so to speak against the ‘’norm’’, you may feel like people at staring at you, looking at you, when they actually may not be and that may not always be the case.
Over the course of time we become more comfortable with it and do not care anymore at all, because you have reached a point where you are more confident and secure in your relationship and that is all that matters and you do not care about what people think.
You can have like a 70 or 80 years old person looking at you, and you may be thinking that they do not like the interracial couple that you are but it might not always be the case, so do not just jump to conclusion and be judgmental.
What they might be thinking could be that they actually admire you and your bravery in the sense that maybe back in the day, they had a boyfriend or girlfriend outside of their ethnicity, it was such a difficult time, they were pressured by family. And maybe they are thinking back…I wish I followed my heart and stand up to my belief and so something about it.
You never know…that’s the point, so do not be paranoid. No one’s opinion matters except yours, so you should enjoy and protect your interracial relationship or interracial marriage. It is not fair to judge somebody based on stereotypes.
Love and time and prayer for the people around you who disapprove of your interracial relationship can help overcome all this mess of hatred and intolerance.
From the race standpoint it is always very important to emphasize there is only one race the human race. There are some cultural differences and some cultural issues and a lot of things that are kind associated with the color of skin, kind of a contrive racial difference.
As far as color skin is concerned…White and Black for instance or whatever color.
Do you know and I am gonna educate some of you guys out there as I will educate my future children on this topic that there is only ONE skin color?
And it is BROWN. We are all varied shades of brown. None of us are White, none of us are Black genetically. We may have black hair; we may have white hair that comes with age but we all have a pigment called melanin in our skin. Even Albinos the lightest people on the planet, are not completely white, they have a small percentage of melanin in their skin.
So we are all BROWN…Yes get it right. Say for instance if the black skin comes off or the white skin comes off, this kind of get skinned off, scraped off, we are all brown underneath and the skin on top is brown. This is what kids and adults alike should be educated on.
I want to add that I do not believe in “Black” history or “white” history or this history, that history.
There is American history for those who live in America and there is also world history. I believe in history in general and in my humble opinion interracial couples should teach their offsprings both sides of their cultures and country history.
Teach them who they are and that being a blend of both you and their mother is what makes them truly unique and they should treasure the heritage they are from.
About interracial love, just know how strong your love it and do not care about the world around you because at the end of the day, you owe nothing to anyone, no one pays your bills, no one feeds you and no one has to dictate you a way of life and no one has the right to tell you who you should date or marry.
Just follow your heart and feel the love where it is so long he is a very good man to you, treat you right, respect you, care for you and about you and he is ready to sacrifice anything for the love that you both have and share and make it stronger and holding against all odds.
People would often say that interracial love and marriages are not for a long ride but if you have the will, the strength, the determination and the true commitment you can prove them wrong and make it last until death do you part. Be happy, don’t worry and spread the love because love knows no skin color barrier.