Popular dating mistakes foreign men make while dating Ukrainian women

Why do foreign gentlemen make crazy mistakes when it comes to Ukrainian dating customs? What are the stereotypes about Ukrainian women and our culture and mentality that are false?

To begin with, all people are human beings; building a romantic relationship may be challenging and emotional. We all have unique backgrounds and life experiences. The truth is that dating requires being vulnerable. The majority of mistakes occur while people do not have enough experience in communicating with real girls. For instance, they hide behind online dating and tend to lose their flirting skills. Obviously, if you hire a professional matchmaker, he or she will offer you some tips, improve your strategy and find appropriate matches.

1. But what if you neglect basic chivalry…
What are we talking about? Doing basic things, like bringing a bouquet of flowers on your first date, taking her hand when she’s stepping out of a vehicle, opening doors, holding her jacket when she’s putting it on, and paying the bill after your lunch or dinner. If you don’t act like a gentleman, you definitely won’t seduce any lady in Ukraine.

2. What if you are ready to choose your life partner after two meetings…
No, it’s not a good idea to jump to conclusions and be too pushy. Actually, it seems a bit too early and it’s not very healthy. We believe one needs to give at least several months before he or she decides to settle with his girlfriend or her boyfriend. The lady and the gentleman should try to spend a lot of quality time together to get to know each other well. Therefore, you shouldn’t rush to intimacy.

It is easy to fall in love and feel the chemistry at first sight, nevertheless, you need time to weigh all the pros and cons and to be confident in your choice. Anyway, couples, who aren’t looking for love at first glance and pay particular attention to their partner’s values, intelligence, etc. make wiser choices and create happy families.

3. What if you search for a housewife instead of an equal partner…
To be honest, some men want to date Slavic women for the wrong reasons. If you are eager to find someone who is ready to cook for you and your kids (let’s imagine they live with you because your ex-wife is a creative person interested in parties), take care of your elderly relatives, keep your house neat and tidy and give you tons of emotional support without demanding anything in return (and you don’t feel you need to treat your lady with respect), you should rethink your opinion about relationships. If you are looking for your soulmate with similar values and interests and if your goal is to find your love, you should definitely try your best.

4. If you are too focused on her appearance…
Let us remind you that beauty is in the eye of the beholder or the perception of beauty is subjective. What one person finds beautiful another may not. What are Ukrainian women like? They are known for their extraordinary beauty, but real girls are not photoshopped “pay per letter sites” models.

Genuine Ukrainian brides who seek partners abroad want to meet a man, fall in love, get married, and live happily ever after. They aren’t eager to correspond for months. If you are too concentrated on the color of her eyes, length of her legs or hair, or her cup size, there will be high chances you will not be able to catch a glimpse into the true nature of love and won’t see past the lies to the real truth.

5. If you want to appear a prince charming who saves his damsel in distress…
There is always a small percentage of single guys who only want to date women from Eastern European countries because it gives them the feeling that they are the superior hero who rescues the poor girl. Ukrainian women don’t need and don’t want to be rescued.

The fact that Ukrainians look gorgeous is not the only thing that makes them special. They combine beauty with intelligence and the perfect portion of traditional family values. Dating a Ukrainian girl may be an amazing experience if you’re ready to try and have realistic expectations.