Sex traditions in Ukraine

Every country in the world has its own culture and traditions, which make it interesting and unique. And it is quite clear, if you want to find a bride overseas, you might wonder what life is like in the place where she lives. So it is not surprising that we are often asked about sex traditions in Ukraine, as this part is very important if you are dating or marrying a woman from Ukraine.

Speaking of the present day in Ukraine, I have to tell you that we are a developed country, having civilized traditions. What do I mean by this?

First of all, a man is usually the one who has to make first steps , i.e. when a couple starts dating each other, most girls are unlikely to be the ones to start intimate talks, etc. So, if you are going on a date with a Ukrainian girl, you must be the “engine”.

We are often asked when it is the right time to have the first intimacy.

Traditions and culture in Ukraine say that a decent girl must not go far at the first date. However, as we have already told in our articles, everything depends on the situation. If we are talking about Ukrainian women and sex, it doesn`t differ much from European culture. Ukrainian sexuality and beauty is a well-known fact, that’s why many men are self-conscious when it comes to seduction of a gorgeous lady. If you show confidence, charisma and you are witty, then you have more chances to win her attention.

To claim that every woman is sensitive and wants a man to dominate in bed will be wrong. Because every girl has a different psychological type, but if you ask in general how are Ukrainian women in bed I can summarize:

  1. They are caring. They do not only get pleasure, but also ready to give it to the beloved man. She most probably is going to make a relaxing massage for you, it is important to give you positive emotions from the whole process. Even if she is not into a professional massage, she knows some relaxing techniques.
  2. They are passionate, but still they need a foreplay. It is a very important part of intimacy, which allows you to show your love, exploring her body. All fitness coaches will tell you how important it is to warm up, the same is about sex. Foreplay enhances the climax and sets trust between you.
  3. They don`t mind diversity in intimate life, so don`t be shy in experimenting, discussing the preferences before.

It is also traditional to have only one partner.

Facts on sex before marriage. According to the present day it is not necessary for the bride to be virgin before the marriage. Of course, it is desirable, still nobody will demand for the proofs, as it used to be long time ago. Very often young people live together before the wedding, meaning that they already have sexual relationship.

Among the modern marriage sex traditions in Ukraine there is one very touching and really beautiful. A groom’s mother takes the veil, which symbolizes virginity and single life, off the bride’s head. This act signifies the bride to become a woman, who is ready to keep the family fire burning.

Long time ago, sex was considered to be the help for the farmers, who wanted to get a good harvest. A married couple had to make love in their field. By doing so, they set a good example for the earth. Nowadays, you will hardly meet anyone doing so. Still, on some occasions, when a couple strongly desire each other, they can “follow the custom” somewhere in the nature. However, most people would prefer to make love in comfortable conditions.

In the past intimacy was a taboo both for married and unmarried couples before plowing or making supper as it could bring misfortune. Lovemaking also used to be forbidden during four fasting periods, church holidays and eves. According to some data people were not allowed to have sex on Wednesday, Friday and Sunday. Fortunately, nowadays Ukrainian people do not fast sexually, except for, probably, highly-religious individuals.

The last thing to be said here is that traditionally, young people start sexual life at the age of 17. In the family parents usually try to talk to their girls and boys about “adult relationship” and prepare them for grown-up life. It was a taboo topic a long time ago, you won`t hear much an intimate talk between parents and children. So the previous generation kids used to find out by themselves how everything works, but nowadays there are so many resources, which give you an insight information about all spheres of life.

So, if you decide to dive into Ukrainian culture, you will definitely not get drowned.