Top rules of sexting
It is not big news that nowadays we are using Internet and mobiles more often. We find friends with the help of our gadgets and even try to build relationship online. Let us look at the things to say while sexting a girl and discuss how to sext someone.
It develops your imagination, gives you a chance to get new emotions without having physical interaction.
It is a good idea if you have just started relationship and have not had sex yet. They have an opportunity to feel liberated and forget about shyness and awkwardness. It also helps you to get to know each other better, learn about your wishes, favorite sex poses and erogenous zones. If you have to temporarily leave your beloved one, you must surely learn how to sext, since in such a way you will be able to continue being close with your better half.
It may add a sparkle to people who have been together long and tried different things in bed. Finally, it makes your confidence grow and you feel loved, wanted and sexy.
On the other hand, it might be not so pleasant because:
If you are sexting with a person you do not know, whom you have found on the Internet and have never seen before, it may be dangerous. You never know who is on the other side of the phone, you may come across an old pervert who introduced himself as a young pretty lady. In case you have decided to try such form of communication you must understand that you may be pranked by a friend of yours or find your intimate photos somewhere on the Internet, especially if someone hacks your gadget and gets your «private» photos. Or you may send them to your friends by mistake.
Having taken into consideration all the pros and cons let us look at some rules for sexting.
Be patient. Do not send intimate photos to a lady after the first date, or you will scare her. Moreover, too intensive sexting can spoil the first impressions from the first sex, which can be different from what you have managed to imagine. It is better to start actually after you have had the first sex. You could start your message writing something like “I can’t stop thinking about our last night…”
How to get her in the mood for sexting? Start with words. Do not hurry to send pictures. Text can help you find out your lady’s attitude to it. So, if she gives you sexy answers, it is a good sign and you can move on to pictures.
When you are ready to send photos, do not think of sending the picture of your “buddy” out of a sudden. Wait till your partner asks . What is more, you have to choose a proper moment. Imagine her getting a picture of you naked while she is having a meeting with her boss…
If you want to move to the next level, ask your lady to send you an unusual photo of herself. It does not have to be too intimate. If the woman asks for your picture, send her a selfie in a bathroom in which you are wearing only a towel tied around you.
Be creative. Think of an unusual and interesting way to take a picture of yourself. Choose different places, poses and light.
Remember about privacy. If you know how to sext, you must know how to protect yourself from getting into the limelight. Before sending an intimate picture of you, make sure there is nothing that can help other people know it is you: your face, tattoos, moles, posters on the walls or furniture at the background, etc.
The last but not least, make sure you are using a secure messenger. And in case someone gets your phone, they are not going to see your private information. Remember to turn off the chat history and think of installing applications which will deny access to anyone but you.
How to find a sexting partner? It depends on the goal you are aiming at. If you are seeking just an online partner, it would be easier for you. You may use different open websites for such purposes, the girls who are regulars at such sites know how to talk, you don`t need to teach them, just be a part of a “hot” conversation. If you consider your potential partner or current one to be involved in such type of messaging, then you should use some tricks.
Here are some tips, which will help you in this “trade”:
- Find appropriate time. If you already decided to start an intimate conversation, be concentrated and don`t let your girlfriend wait too much. Your response must be quick. If you have a business meeting in 10 minutes, it is not the best time to start such conversation. As you need to set a special mood, don`t distract yourself and concentrate on a sexual atmosphere.
- Choose sexting places. Don`t do it at a working place unless you are your own boss and have enough time for it. Better it is your own bed or bathroom.
- You shouldn`t have texting-phase for too long. It is good to express your erotic thoughts and desires, but if you keep it only at this stage and will show you from the side which you are not in real life, it may cause problems later. A girl will have an image of you in bed, and if won`t meet her expectations, she will be frustrated.