First of all let’s discuss the right and wrong reasons to be looking for Ukrainian brides.
If you want to have the most romantic adventure of your life, if you want from the very beginning to fill you relationship with extra romance, sense of adventure and make it truly special – then you should seriously consider international dating. Not only you will double all the holidays per year, including having two Christmas and twice as many gifts and happy holiday memories, but also you will have a chance to choose the best from each culture and bring it into your relationship, into your family life. You will get a chance to mix your family traditions and create your own unique international family traditions. And of course at diolli.com we strongly believe that international couples have more fun and their kids are truly adorable!
But what are the wrong reasons to be looking for Ukrainian brides?
Well, pretty often foreign gentlemen believe that just because they are from the USA, China or let’s say from India ALL Ukrainian ladies will definitely want to date them. All they have to do is fly over to Ukraine and pick among numerous Ukrainian brides. If this is your main reason to consider international dating then you will face a huge disappointment. Despite some rumours created mostly by mail-order brides websites Ukraine is not a country of desperate Ukrainian brides who will marry anyone foreign just because he is “foreign and not Ukrainian”, so if you consider dating in Ukraine, because “it will be so much easier” and you won’t face any competition then for sure you will face huge disappointment when the reality finally hits you. Ukrainian brides will expect you to fight for their attention, be witty, charming, handsome and to be a dating material by their standards which will be so different.
So what about Ukrainian brides at Diolli.com: why we are the best?
- We avoid “desperate people”. Ladies that we recruit into our base are well-educated, good-looking, usually they have jobs they like or successful careers, so international dating is not “the only solution” for them to improve their “depressive lives”. They consider international dating as a great chance to expand their pool of search and to meet a great man who can become a real life partner. Ukrainian women are proud by nature, they respect their families, respect traditions, respect marriage and men in their lives. The image created by numerous mail-order brides dating sites about Ukrainian brides as “needy and desperate for love and attention” is actually misleading. In real life Ukrainian brides are not open to date someone who is the age of their parents, someone with lots of extra weight and no job or ambitions in life. Ladies whom we recruit to diolli.com base are serious about meeting someone special, but they are not desperate to date just anyone. They are looking for love, affection, care and serious relationship.
- We respect their privacy. Usually when you open a mail-order brides website you will see a huge online catalogue of Ukrainian brides. Some of them will be wearing clothes, other won’t. As a professional matchmaker with 10 years of experience I am always surprised how adult men can seriously consider an 18 years old half naked girl from the online catalogue of Ukrainian brides a reasonable potential date? Why don’t they doubt her reasons to be at that catalogue? What if her family or friends from school find her there? Perhaps that is her part-time or even full-time job to entertain gentlemen online? So often gentlemen forget that many “dating sites” with ladies in beautiful lingerie are created for entertainment and not as a base to choose a life partner. At diolli.com we respect privacy of our clients both male and female. This is why so many ladies choose us, because they can be sure that their photos or other personal information won’t end up in the Internet. It is actually scary, but the majority of dating companies in Ukraine who work with Ukrainian brides still post information about their female clients online, so that everyone can see not only the photos of the lady, but also read what type of a man she is searching for, what are her dreams and favourite hobbies. Everyone can read this information – her colleagues, maybe even her boss or ex boyfriend. Our approach at diolli.com is still quite unique for Ukrainian market: we do not post any information about our clients online. Of course this helps us to attract high quality clientele and have a big exclusive base of singles.
- We have a professional licenced matchmaker, dating coach and a professional psychologist in our team. To join our base ladies have to pass several stages of interviews, which helps us and the ladies to understand their true intentions and desires. We choose only those people who are serious about meeting someone special and who have managed to overcome the majority of personal issues and drama. We believe that our clients have the right to choose among the best and shouldn’t collect “broken people”, who are not sure about who they are and what they need to do with their lives. Online catalogues with Ukrainian brides do not bother to actually check the true intentions of the girls in their base, because the goal of such services is to entertain.
- We choose quality. 10 years of professional matchmaking experience has taught us always to choose quality and to feel ok to say no to a potential candidate. If we doubt the true intentions of the potential male client or female member or if these intentions contradict our principles of work and professional ethics we say no and won’t work with this person. Pretty often out of 50 candidates into our base we choose just 2 or 3. We are not interested in collecting a huge base of Ukrainian brides who are actually not interested in dating internationally or are not serious about relationship. It is our job to preselect only those candidates who share similar values and ambitions about family and relationship as our male clients.
- We truly believe and follow our motto “where you invest your love you invest your life”!
Svetlana Mukha, with love….