What is an ideal date like?
Not long ago we conducted a survey among our female clients. Its aim was to find out what would be your ideal first date look like. Can you guess what most of them have chosen? Believe it or not, but it was a simple dinner. Really? Just a dinner? Not just a dinner… but a very important event in the life of every woman. So, why is a simple dinner an ideal date for a lady?
The nature has created us, women, so that we always want to look wonderful and stunning. So, whenever we get a free minute, we try to spend it making ourselves more beautiful. And when we have an important meeting with a man we like or want to impress, believe me, there is nothing better than to prepare for it and the preparation is a sacred ritual for every girl.
What does ideal date mean? When you both enjoy each other`s company, the place, the atmosphere, you have chemistry between you and have meaningful conversations, the main thing is that you would like to see each other again.
An ideal date for a girl starts with creating an image. We spend a lot of time doing our hair. We stretch it, curl it, put it up, make different designs to finally find the best one. When the hair is ready it takes us some time to work on our make-up, which is usually quite challenging since we want to look bright and natural at the same time. The last step of the ritual is choosing the most suitable outfit, which will not be too modest or too open. And finally, the shoes, which will turn your head, my dear men. Ukrainian women will never let themselves to go on an ideal date night in shoes other than high-heeled ones. Why? I am sure you know the answer. High heels make our legs more attractive and very sexy.
You may think that a woman does the same before any kind of a date, then why is a dinner in a restaurant an ideal one? The answer is because a restaurant is the place where we, women, can be all armed – wearing an evening dress, high-heeled shoes, having an exquisite hairstyle. Can you imagine a girl dressed like this rollerblading or even watching a film in the cinema? I am sure, it is impossible. Of course, at any date your lady is going to look fantastic, do not even doubt it, but only a dinner in a good restaurant may create THAT atmosphere, where a sparkle runs between you two. Romantic music, muted lights, she looks fantastic and you are being a real gentleman… isn’t that what both of you are going to remember?
So, when choosing the place, choose a restaurant, which is not very crowded. It is better, if it is an unusual place, which has its own style. It is also good if there is live music, to which you will be able to dance. While dancing, both women and men are getting used to new feelings and emotions. And this is where you can «legally» touch your woman.
Finally, it is strange to hear, but food that you eat in a restaurant, may win you extra points. Order something exquisite to surprise your lady.
As you get to know each other better, you can add more dream date ideas to your list:
- Rent a suite in the local hotel somewhere far from the city centre in cosy suburbs, where you can take off your mind from daily routine. Choose a day when you both can completely relax from work, go there in the early morning, enjoy the facilities of the hotel, go to Spa and have a divine massage, after that you can continue with a bottle of chilled wine to celebrate having each other in your life. Make your woman feel special, tell her how lucky you are to be with her. Have an amazing sex in the intimate atmosphere, it will definitely spark your sexual life.
- Be a tourist in your own town. But plan ahead which nice spots you can visit. Start with something active, maybe an amusement park, have a ride on Ferris Wheel, enjoying the view of the city, take a stroll holding hands and dreaming about something good. Visit a nice cosy restaurant with unusual cuisine.
- Ride an air hot balloon. If your lady has always dreamt to do it, it is the perfect idea for a date with her. She is going to be really excited and the day she will never forget.
- Have a picnic. It might seem old school, but it is very romantic. Drive to the place where there are going to be only two of you and nature. Or just go on a long drive together, listening to your favourite music, have some snacks with you, stop to admire the nature, kiss and talk to each other.
- Go on a hike. If you are both adventurous, it is going to be just for you. While admiring magnificent views from the top of the mountains, take a moment to admire each other.
- Movie marathon. Imagine you and your lady in cute pajama enjoying a night stay at home, drinking wine and watching romantic movies in turns. Sounds like heaven? Cuddle with your partner and have the time of your life.
- Candlelight dinner at home. Nothing is more romantic than cooking for your partner. Lit up the candles, prepare a hot bubble bath with champagne and decorate a bed with rose petals.
For someone ideal date is being at home with the person you love, for someone is having dinner at the rooftop of a nice hotel, as for me it is perfect when a man puts some efforts into it, goes out of his way just to make you feel special, it can be expressed in small gestures, which are appreciated the most. What is your ideal date?