Does “hot” always mean beautiful? And vice versa does beautiful always mean hot?
What is the definition of “hot”? Is it the same for everyone?
I`ve decided to ask some of my male friends how they imagine a hot girl to help me actually identify her.
Dennis 33 y.o.: I will find a girl hot if she has a model look. She has to be skinny and tall, preferably with long blond hair.
Angelo 40 y.o.: Curvy brunette is an only hot girl for me. She has to have petite forms and I should see passion in her eyes.
Bledi 28 y.o.: I`m a bit confused with this question. Looking back at my ex-girlfriends I can`t give the exact definition of a hot girl because all the girls I have dated were totally different and I definitely found all of them hot. I assume I was attracted to something mysterious in them, in their behavior maybe.
Alexandr 45 y.o.: Hot girl for me is a girl with muscular athletic body, very sportive and strong.
I was a bit confused with the answers. As you see there aren`t identical replies, as many men as many opinions.
Sometimes definitions “beautiful” and “hot” do not coincide. For example you can see a perfectly good-looking girl with ideal body proportions and extremely cute face but you don`t have a click. You just look at her as at beautiful picture but your heartbeat doesn`t increase. Or you are super excited when you see a gorgeous lady but after 5 minutes of communication with her you realize that it`s not your person at all, you are totally different, you have diverse perspectives on life.
Or let`s look at another situation. You always were attracted to skinny ladies with blond hair and blue eyes but your heart won a red haired girl with the cutest freckles and with the most infectious laugh ever.
These stories show us that sometimes you don`t know yourself what you need and what kind of woman will make you happy and satisfied in life. That`s why every psychologist will advise you to be more open minded and give a chance to women who choose you. You never know with whom you will end up. Just give a try and use your every chance to meet the love of your life.
One of my friend said that he was not looking for beautiful appearance but for beautiful soul, because what a sense to run for appearance if it would disappear with ages anyway. His theory makes sense, doesn`t it?
If you are looking for a life partner, for your soul mate who will be next to you for good and bad days, a lady you want to build a family with, it won`t be matter what is color of her hair (what she can easily change by the way) or how tall she is. You should pay more attention on how beautiful her inner world is and how kind her heart is.
A lady can be beautiful and hot but without a great personality it doesn`t make any sense. You will be bored in a short period of time.
I wish you to meet on your way a beautiful and hot girl with the rich inner world. But still look beyond appearance.